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Heartbroken family pays tribute to wealthy antiques dealer, 63, missing in Christmas Day dip double tragedy - describing him as 'deeply loved and forever missed'
SOURCE:Daily Mail
Heartbroken relatives of the antiques dealer who is missing after going for a Christmas Day swim have paid tribute to the 'beloved family member' who will be 'missed forever'.
Heartbroken relatives of the wealthy antiques dealer who is missing after going for a Christmas Day swim have paid tribute to the 'beloved family member' who will be 'missed forever'.
Matthew Upham, 63, is feared to have lost his life when he went for a traditional festive dip off the coast of Budleigh Salterton in Devon - while a second man is feared to have drowned trying to save him.
Mr Upham's family took to social media this evening to pay tribute to him, and to thank the emergency services for their efforts.
In a statement posted to his antique shop Instagram account, they wrote: 'Our family is heartbroken by the loss of our beloved family member Matthew Upham, who was reported missing on Christmas morning.
'Matthew is deeply loved and will be forever missed.
'We would like to express our sincere and heartfelt thanks to the emergency services who responded, particularly the RNLI and coastguard, for their dedication, professionalism, and tireless efforts during this extremely difficult time.
'We are profoundly grateful for their compassion and support.
'As we grieve and support one another, we kindly ask that our family's privacy is respected.
'We thank everyone for their understanding, kindness, and condolences.'
Antiques dealer Matthew Upham, 63, is feared to have lost his life off the coast of Budleigh Salterton after he joined several other people on the beach yesterday for the annual event
A second man, in his 40s, is feared to have drowned trying to save Mr Upham as he was swept out to sea on Christmas Day
A tribute was posted to Matthew Upham's Instagram page by his family this evening
Mr Upham's friends led tributes earlier today, with one saying: 'Matthew is an exceptionally kind man and very well liked in the town.
'He goes swimming practically every day, he's very fit and knows the waters locally well.
'Lots of people went yesterday because of the Christmas Day swim, but Matthew would have been there regardless.
'He'd never intend to spark such a big rescue effort, in fact he'd be horrified at putting anyone at risk to look for him.
'From what I've heard, he'd gone into the water and had tried to get back out, but a wave came crashing over him and washed him further along the shore.
'We're hoping that he somehow managed to scramble free from the water and is sheltering somewhere.'
Mr Upham runs the Matthew Upham Antiques business in Budleigh Salterton. A single yellow rose has been left on the doorstep of the store.
Another friend of Matthew said: 'I spoke to someone who was at the beach yesterday and saw what happened.
'It looks as though Matthew was trying to come out of the water, but was pulled back out and drifted further down the beach.
'We don't know who the man in his 40s is. We believe he is someone who'd gone to try and help Matthew.
'Matthew is a one of a kind, such a nice cheerful man. He's got so many friends locally. It would be the best Christmas present of all to find him safe and well.'
Several swimmers had to be dragged to safety from the choppy waters yesterday morning as high winds created huge swells.
One witness said the waves were 'almost 10ft'.
The Daily Mail understands that a younger man is feared to have drowned trying to save Mr Upham from the crashing waves.
Sea swimmers may have mistakenly believed the RNLI were 'on hand' before the two men went missing, according to The Times.
Participants are said to have seen a service boat offshore at Budleigh Salterton beach and believed it was there to support the Christmas Day swim.
According to witnesses, swimmers had gone into the sea after spotting a lifeboat, raising concerns that participants may have thought the informal swim was supported by lifeguards.
It is understood that the RNLI lifeboat was out on an exercise, and was not there to protect swimmers participating in the Christmas Day swim.
However, the lifeboat responded immediately when people got into trouble.
Moments after this photograph was taken on Christmas Day swimmers ran into difficulty and two men disappeared into the waves at Budleigh Salterton in Devon
Exmouth and Beer Coastguard rescue teams, RNLI lifeboats and a search and rescue helicopter were deployed to search for the men, who remain missing
Witnesses described how swimmers were knocked over by massive waves, while others were unable to get out of the foam.
Some swimmers were reportedly taken to the hospital after being helped back to shore due to rough conditions.
Police said two men – one in his 40s and the other in his 60s – had been taking part in a traditional swim off the coast of Devon when the alarm was raised at around 10.25am yesterday.
Images from the scene show dozens of people in swimwear and Santa hats screaming and laughing as they ran into the crashing waves.
Separately, a video shows shows the moments crowds of swimmers ran into the sea, before being knocked over by a giant wave.
As the massive waves continued to crash, some swimmers can be seen being dragged into the sea.
Just moments later, emergency services were called following reports of concern for several swimmers in the stormy waters.
Exmouth and Beer Coastguard rescue teams, RNLI lifeboats and a search and rescue helicopter were deployed.
Devon and Cornwall Police said several swimmers were helped back to shore and taken to hospital as a precaution, but added: 'Two men remain missing at this time and searches and enquiries are ongoing in efforts to locate them.'
Swimmers were asked not to take part in the nearby Exmouth Christmas Day swim while the incident was dealt with.
'We ask that people do not enter the water for public safety reasons. Due to the current weather warnings, we ask that this is the case today and for any Boxing Day swims,' a police spokesman said.
In the aftermath of the incident, devastated locals have questioned why Budleigh Salterton's traditional swim was 'allowed' to go ahead despite the stormy conditions.
Meanwhile, businesses have organised collections for the RNLI amid the Christmas Day tragedy, and floral tributes were left at the beach for the two men who went missing.
One tribute read: 'To the two special souls who were tragically lost at sea yesterday. One of you we knew so well and loved. Prayers and love'.
Police have subsequently warned locals to stay out of the water and not join any Boxing Day swim events.
A poignant photograph captured the moment festive smiles turned to disaster as high winds of up to 65mph created huge swells and dragged several swimmers under the water. Many had to be pulled to safety back onto shore.
Flowers were today left close to the beach at Budleigh Salterton as two men remain missing
Devon and Cornwall Police issued an urgent warning to swimmers to stay away from similar swims today.
Anger is now growing at the decision to allow the event to go ahead yesterday despite the stormy conditions - though it is understood the gathering is more of a tradition rather than a formally organised event.
The RNLI attend in many cases, but the risk to participate is placed on individuals taking part.
Residents living in communities near to the tragedy have expressed their concern for the families of the missing men - but have also questioned why public officials could not shut the event down if conditions were deemed too dangerous to swim.
Others highlighted the risks placed on emergency services sent out to help in the search. One RNLI crew abandoned their vessel due to the 'extremely difficult' conditions yesterday, with the boat only recovered this morning.
As one resident warned: 'The sea isn't Center Parcs. It's more powerful than any of us and as generations of sailors in this town will attest, it's a cruel mistress'.
The resident, who wished to remain anonymous, added on their social media post that had the event been under the control of a public authority, costs for security, event management and public safety personnel could have topped £10,000.
But while yesterday's event was free, it was also considered 'unofficial'.
The resident wrote: 'The Boxing Day Swim has no such controls – it's open to all-comers, any age, any ability, drunk or sober, undiagnosed health conditions or not. We can't tell – people just turn up and run into the water.
'They don't give their names and certainly don't sign a waiver. It's never been 'organised' and yet, people 'think' it's organised: there are no controls; there are no authorities in attendance to take over should something bad happen; and of course, there is no a** to kick if something goes wrong.
'There are no formal first aiders, there's no lifeguard or lifeboat cover. If someone gets cold water shock, or cramps, or just falls and hits their head, there's nothing in place.'
A second expressed on social media: 'Why was this even allowed?'
Another said: '[It] should never have gone ahead. No respect for the emergency services or for their own safety.'
One familiar with the coastline said: 'The sea at Budleigh today was treacherous with huge waves and dangerous currents. Nobody should have been swimming there.'
In an update this morning, HM Coastguard the told Daily Mail the two men remain missing.
A spokesperson said: 'HM Coastguard responded to reports of people in difficulty in water in the Budleigh Salterton area yesterday, 25 December.
'Alerted at around 10am, Exmouth and Beer Coastguard Rescue Teams, RNLI lifeboats from Exmouth, Teignmouth and Torbay and coastguard search and rescue helicopters and fixed wing aircraft were sent to the scene to assist, alongside police and ambulance service.
'Searches continued throughout the day to find two men believed to still be in the water.
'After extensive shoreline and offshore searches, the coastguard part of the search was stood down at 5pm.'
RNLI Teignmouth also revealed in an update today that the 'challenging conditions' had prevented one lifeboat from returning back to its station until this morning.
In a statement, the crew - who went out with volunteers from RNLI Exmouth and RNLI Torbay - said: 'Our thoughts remain with all those impacted by the incident and the family and friends of the two people who are missing.
'Conditions at sea were extremely difficult and cold for the crew involved in the search who were out all day.
Conditions were so 'challenging' for rescuers that one RNLI lifeboat from Teignmouth had to be diverted down the coast and could only return back to its station this morning
Emergency services were called at 10.25am on Christmas Day to the beach at Budleigh Salterton following concern for swimmers in the water
'Following the shout, Teignmouth boat volunteer crew headed to Torbay for recovery, as challenging conditions prevented the lifeboat from returning directly to Teignmouth Lifeboat Station.'
Devon and Cornwall Police has meanwhile confirmed a police presence remains at the scene and enquiries are ongoing.
The force also reminded people wanting to go for a Boxing Day swim to stay away from the water.
Detective Superintendent Hayley Costar said in a statement yesterday: 'There have been weather warnings in place this week and a number of official and un-official swims have already been cancelled.
'While there are no official warnings in place for tomorrow, we urge anyone with plans to go swimming in the sea on Boxing Day not to.'
Teignmouth RNLI issued a statement confirming the Boxing Day Walk In The Sea had been cancelled.
'We kindly ask that people don't take part independently,' it reminded locals on social media.
Thousands of people however around Britain's coastline were seen today taking to the beaches for their traditional Boxing Day dip in the sea.
Emergency services arrived at Budleigh Salterton beach in Devon on Christmas Day, but the coastguard search was called off after 5pm
Devon and Cornwall Police has meanwhile reminded people wanting to go for a Boxing Day swim to stay away from the water. Pictured: Crowds watch on in the moments before the traditional swim turned to disaster
Police said one of the missing men's next of kin had been spoken to but enquiries to reach the family of the second man were ongoing. They added that a local friend had been informed.
Several Christmas and Boxing Day swims in Devon and Cornwall were cancelled on Wednesday after a yellow weather warning was issued.
The Met Office warned of 'strong and gusty east to north-easterly winds' on Christmas Day in parts of the south-west of England and Wales. It said peak gusts could reach 55 to 65mph along exposed coasts, warning: 'Large waves will be an additional hazard on some coasts.'
Despite the poor weather, hundreds of revellers entered the sea in east Devon yesterday. The search for the two men was called off for the day at 5pm.
BBC journalist Phillip Stoneman, who has been a visitor to Budleigh for the swim for the past few years, said: 'As soon as we arrived, you could tell that the sea was the roughest it's been and that anyone going in would need to be a lot more cautious than usual.
'The waves swept some people exiting the sea off their feet and other swimmers were helping them out.'
He said the RNLI boat was out in the water at the time and hundreds of people were either on the beach or in the water.
Going with tradition: Despite yesterday's tragedy, thousands took to the beaches today for their traditional Boxing Day dip in the sea. Pictured: Tynemouth Beach
Swimmers were also out in force at Sunny Sands Beach in Folkestone, Kent, on Boxing Day
Melissa Hill, who was visiting the town for Christmas, said: 'The coastguards have cordoned off part of the path where the swimmers set off from. They are overlooking the area where this happened. It is such an awful thing to have happened. There is no good time to die, but Christmas Day is so terrible.
'The conditions are dreadful. The sea is cold, the wind is strong, and the waves are crashing in. I can't believe anyone went into the water when it was like this.'
A local pensioner, who did not want to be named, said as many as four people were initially believed to be missing.
'We went to the scene and we were told four people were missing. I don't know if that figure is still correct.
'But the conditions have been treacherous all day. There is nothing to protect swimmers from the elements here today.'
A coastguard worker at the scene said: 'This was a major response. We have had multi helicopters, lifeboats and coastguards on scene.'
It came as wild swimmers were warned after shipping containers of bananas fell overboard from a cargo ship off the Isle of Wight.
The Maritime and Coastguard Agency said 16 containers had fallen into the sea from the Baltic Klipper off Bembridge on December 6.
Some containers had washed up at Selsey, West Sussex, it added. Now Arun District Council has warned that metal fragments may be in the water. The council posted on Facebook: 'If you are planning a festive swim this year, please take extra care along our beaches.
'Following the recent shipping container incident, there may still be metal fragments in the sea along our coastline. Please stay safe and if you see anyone in difficulty in the water, please call 999 and ask for the Coastguard.'